Thursday, January 1, 2026

One Word 2026

Before I dive into the new year and focus for 2026, I would be remiss to not reflect on the year that was 2025.  As noted in my One Word post from last year, we were gearing up for a BIG year.  But no one could have prepared us for the amount of BIG and CHANGE that was on the horizon.  The challenges, the losses, the blessings, and the triumphs.   

I can't begin to count the number of times I muttered the words, "This WAS NOT on my 2025 BINGO card."  We navigated it all knowing we were pushing ONWARD - Continually seeking spiritual growth and maturity; Remaining steadfast in faith during trials and uncertainties; Actively participating in the mission to spread the Gospel; Trusting in God's guidance and provision for the future.  God provided every time.   


Maybe not in the ways we expected, and definitely in His own time, but we came out the other side stronger, smarter, better prepared, and changed for good.  Heck, I even got my first tattoo - in VEGAS!  And that was not even close to the most exciting thing that happened all year.  This blog carries the highlights, and my heart is ready to move into 2026.

CONNECTING.

For 2026, Connecting is my word.

Because love, leadership, faith, and purpose are all built the same way—
one intentional thread at a time

Connection is where purpose takes shape. It’s the quiet thread that draws us closer to God, binds us to one another, and reminds us we were never meant to walk alone. When we choose to connect—intentionally and faithfully—we strengthen what holds us together and discover the beauty of being woven into something greater than ourselves.

Connection with God

“O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water.”
Psalm 63:1 (ESV)

Connection begins with longing. A daily, intentional seeking that recognizes our dependence on God—not out of obligation, but out of thirst.

Connection with God begins with desire. Psalm 63:1 captures a faith that is not passive, but deeply personal—an earnest seeking rooted in spiritual thirst. Like a dry and weary land longing for water, our souls are designed to crave God’s presence, not just His provision. In a world full of noise and distraction, Connecting with God means intentionally drawing near, choosing time with Him, and acknowledging our dependence on Him for renewal and life. When we seek Him first, He meets us in the quiet places and restores what has grown weary within us.


Connection with Other Believers (The Body of Christ)

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this, everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
John 13:34–35 (ESV)

Connection is how faith becomes visible. Love—lived out in community—is the mark that sets believers apart.

Connection with other believers is not optional, It is a defining mark of our faith. Jesus makes it clear that love is how the world recognizes His disciples, not by our words alone but by how we care for, support, and show up for one another. Connecting within the Body of Christ means choosing grace, unity, and intentional relationship, even when it requires patience or vulnerability. When we love as Christ loves, our connection becomes a living testimony of His presence among us. 


Unity, Growth, and Mutual Support

“Iron sharpens iron, and one person sharpens another.”
Proverbs 27:17 (ESV)

Connection refines us. We are shaped, strengthened, and sharpened through intentional relationships that challenge and encourage us to grow.

Proverbs 27:17 reminds us that transformation doesn’t happen in isolation—it happens in relationship. Just as iron sharpens iron through contact and friction, we are refined through intentional connections with others who encourage us, challenge us, and walk alongside us in faith. Connecting means allowing ourselves to be known and shaped within community. It’s in trusted relationships that we gain perspective, receive encouragement, and are lovingly challenged to grow beyond our comfort zones. Growth can be uncomfortable at times, but it is in that sharpening process that our faith deepens and our character is strengthened. 


I’m grounding my word for 2026 in this promise:

“Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.”
James 4:8 (ESV)

This verse captures the heart of Connecting—a faith that moves toward God with intention and trust, knowing that every step we take toward Him is met with His faithful presence. 

As I move into 2026, this is the posture I want to live from: drawing near, staying connected, and allowing God to meet me in every relationship and season ahead.


Connecting means living as God designed—intimately rooted in Him and intentionally woven into community—where love, vulnerability, and shared faith strengthen us to reflect Christ to one another and the world. 2026 will be transformative, marked by both significant changes ahead and relationships that are still fresh, new, and growing. Leaning into connection is how I will steward what matters most, ensuring the sustainability of the relationships I hold dear. Holding this truth—and myself—accountable is at the heart of my goals for 2026.

As I do every year, it is time to look back over my one word posts from years past to see how I came to use them as my focus for the year and to assess outcomes.  How well I was able to maintain that focus.  What God brought me to or brought me through because of my one word.  How my family changed and grew from my yearly focus.  Here is a list of the previous posts, if you are interested:


2025 - Onward

2024 - Discernment

2023 - Celebrate!

2022 - satisfied

2021 - hope

2020 - breath

2019 - listen

2018 - welcome

2017 - closer  (I was anxious, and blog-averse, as we opened 2017, so it's a short FB post)

2016 - greater

2015 - brave

2014 - joyful

2013 - resolution

My intential focus for 2026 is connection.  In my heart, in my house, in my personal relationships and my professional growth.  We are stronger together.  I am letting go of things that were never meant to be mine and leaning in to those who are willing to invest in me - flaws and all.  Along the way to isolating Connecting as my One Word, I also explored these other words: Bridging – deliberate, symbolic effort; Linking – gentle and steady; Uniting – closeness despite distance; Reaching – hopeful and tender; Spanning – poetic, distance overcome; Weaving – care, patience, intention; Threading – delicate connection across space; Spanning – love that stretches and holds.  

Connecting isn’t just about relationships, conversations, or bridges built between people. It’s about daily choosing proximity over distance—leaning in, reaching out, weaving intentional nearness with God and with others.

Because the most meaningful connections are formed when we take the first step…
and trust that God will close the distance.

Living as God designed—intimately rooted in Him and intentionally woven into community—where love, vulnerability, and shared faith strengthen us to reflect Christ to one another and the world.

Wednesday, December 31, 2025

December 2025

 

"December lights up the dark with Christmas magic and holiday love." -- Rip Miller

Oh! DECEMBER! So full of hope and wonder. Short dark days and twinkling holiday lights. Cozy decorations, friends and families coming together.  Dress up days and final exams.  Reflections of the year we've had and anticipation and preparation for the year to come.   December is chilly (usually, but this is Oklahoma, so we had 70 degree days, too), bustling cheerful - AND BUSY!  And of course, the Weavers were right in the thick of ALL of it!

So welcome to winter and Christmas chaos. School days and exams mixed with high expectations of jolly attire and Secret Santa gifts. And for me, all of this was the icing on a cake called "New Job Imposter Syndrome."  The month was exactly what it should have been, and a whole lot of things we never expected - all rolled into 31 winter days.  Here is the very long recap:


Week 1: December 1 - 7

My yearly reminder that Social Media is a Highlight Reel




And, JACK (randoms fom this week)!
  

 

 


Week 2: December 8 - 14

All about Finn!



Choir Concert



 



Jake played basketball - we saw most of it onTV but not in person...


Until we drove to KCMO for a game, found fun relatives, and spent the night in Gardner!

Look who is on the Game Day poster!!!

 

 

 


It was insanely cold
 

 

And we had to make a detour to Hillsboro (it's a thing...)

But the end was ALL WORTH IT!


JAKE IS HOME!  Sitting on the counter with his feet in the fridge...


And Jack...


The adjustment to mom wokring from home had some bumps in the road...



 





 

 



Week 3: December 15 - 21

Life with Jake being home

 

 




AI Trends

 
 



Jack broke his tail (yes we took him to the vet; yes he got treatment)




Pre-Concert Photo Shoot


 




 

 




Treaty Oak Revival Concert at Paycom for Mom and Jake

 

 


Family Christmas at our house!

 
 







 

 


There was a surprise....


 



 

And Jack...
 

 

 

 

 

Week 4: December 22 - 28

Avery finally got to come home!

I just love this relationship and how hard they work on it!

We got some very sad news

 

Emma and Parker got the awful and heartbreaking news that the baby
she was carrying had stopped developing and she was miscarrying. 


Jack's tail was definitely healing well




Christmas Eve

I had to do a little work to get the day started...




Then, we started our Chrsitmas Eve traditions!






This Santa Baby has come a long way in 14 years! Same stocking…

In the first picture he was still 29 days from leaving the NICU and had just had his feeding tube removed. Now he’s almost as tall as me (he’s 5’9”), full of teenage boy energy , and keeps us on our toes. But, he’s still sweet and kind and tender and lets us take pictures.

Merry Christmas to our MIRACLE @finns_pics5 !


Candlelight Service at Life.Church Edmond

 

 



Solidan CULTURE

 

 

Christmas Day

 


Jake nap during halftime of the Thunber game

Day After Christmas

Jake left to go back to Tabor and we enjoyed (?) the 80 degree weather in Edmond

 


Our house is emptier, but our hearts are fuller. Jake’s 12 day break ended this afternoon, and Avery’s brief trip home ends in the morning. The last few days with the 2 of them in and out of the house was so sweet. Praying for the rest of their respective basketball seasons and their second semesters at Tabor and Utah.

Two college freshmen student-athletes prove that even with packed schedules, big dreams, and 1,000+ miles between them, love can still show up, put in the work, and win.

Late in the Week

Enjoying the Christmas decor while it lasts.  We'll probably be taking it down next week...









And Jack...










End of Month: December 29-31

December 29 - Kansas

I got up early, drove over 100 miles, and spent the entire day with my girl, Emma, in Ark City.  It might have been my favorite day of the month. Not because of the circumstances that led to that day, but the precious, uninterrupted time with my girl.  Just her and I for most of it - Parker and his mom were there too, but they had to go to Wichita for some errands.  We talked. and TALKED. And laughed a little and just got to be. Mother and daughter. Women. Friends. Survivors.  All of it.  I took a gift basket for her and Parker from Britt and I. One item was a sweet, sincere keepsake box.  I watched her select the items she wanted to put in it and watched her carefully place the memories in a place where she will always know where they are.  I drove home late- in the dark, fueled by Alani.




December 20 - Thunder

While I was in Kansas, late in the afternoon my Thunder friend called me and told me she was ill and wouldn't be able to use her season tickets for the Hawks game.  I was too far away, and Britt was home sick.  Enter - LARA!  I called and asked if she wanted to go and take Finn.  Phine calls, texts, drop everythings, and BOOM!  Lara drove through Edmond to pick up Finn, and they were Paycom bound!  They had a blast!


Wrapped up the month

Avery send evidence of her using the gift we got her

I hit the Book Goal mark mere hours before 2025 ended


December 31 - Kick 2025 to the Curb

I had a moment.  I was reflecting on 2025, and I knew it was not a good year for me.  I was thinking about how I wanted to roll into 2026 differently.  And this is what spontaneously came out and I posted on socials:

I keep hearing “Yeah! But you survived!” At what cost, though. Vulnerable post ahead. Please unfollow if you need to.

I’m leaving 2025 broken. Tired. Worn out. Disappointed. Hurt. So many people abandoned me this year. The pain I’ve been through completely ignored and discarded. The resilience I’ve shown thrown back in my face and spit on. I’ve shown up. When it was hard. When I didn’t want to. When I knew it was not going to be reciprocated. I. SHOWED. UP.
I took big leaps - scary, abyss spanning, terrifying LEAPS - to make my situation better for me and those close to me. People laughed. I stood up for things that were impossible for me to stand up for, but necessary. People left. LOUDLY. I did hard things that no one should ever have to do. Because LOVE leads. People lied, to my face.

I know everyone’s life is hard in their own ways. I know no one has it easy. I know I could have it so much worse. But when people who are supposed to love you - throw the word family around like it’s cheap confetti - really mean “I love you only when you do things that don’t inconvenience me” that’s when pain settles in your bones and life feels unbearable.

I’ve made mistakes. And I own up to them when I realize it. I’m not perfect - and neither is anyone else. My goal every day (after getting out of bed) is to learn something. Do better today than yesterday. Make some small difference.

Some days are better than others. 2025 has been days upon days of sacks of rocks.

To those who loved me though it: You know who you are. I SEE YOU! The number is unbelievably small, but I see you. And I love you too.

If you have questions for me, ask them. Ask them out of care and concern - not out of gossip or curiosity. Ask because you value me as a person. Ask because you want to lead with love.

If you got this far, know I am looking forward to 2026. I am leaving a lot behind, and adjusting to a new normal. But I am longing for growth, security, and accountability. I hope my circle gets bigger, but only with intentionality and true discernment. The walls are up, and THICK, but not impenetrable.

Here’s to 2026. May she bring light and love to us all.

The responses were all positive.  Some from people I haven't really heard from in decades; others who I thought would never interact with this type of content.  But surprises abound!  Sounds like I will roll into 2026 fostering old relationships and reconnecting with people I haven't seen in a while.

One of those folks sent me this image.  It was the balm I needed to restore my heart and raise my faith for a prosperous, blessed, and less stressful 2026:d to restire my heart and raise my faith for a prosperous, blessed, and less stressful 2026:



Here I am, 2026.  Let's do this! 

(Check out my 2026 One Word here)

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December was a good reading month.  Kind of unexected!  Started out pretty slowly, but tehn I got in a groove.  At one point this year I was WAY off pace, but I made it - by the skin on my teeth, but I DID IT! (Do you sense a theme?!?)


"Icebreaker" by Hannah Grace

"In a Holidaze" by Christina Lauren

"Told You So" by Mayci Neeley

"Everythig is Tuberculosis: The History and Persistence of Our Deadliest Infection" by John Green

"Yours for the Season" by Uzma Jalaluddin

"Wreck the Halls" by Tessa Bailey

"The Chirstmas Compromise" by Susan Hatler

"That's a Great Question, I'd Love to Tell You" by Elyse Myers



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