Showing posts with label RSV. Show all posts
Showing posts with label RSV. Show all posts

Thursday, December 12, 2013

December to Remember


My poor ole blog has been feeling a ton of neglect!  I have not had a spare moment since the middle of November to document the events and thoughts that the Dream Weavers have encountered!  This will definitely be a season we will remember.  I honestly think we are in a point in our lives where we are the busiest we can possibly be.  This has caused stress, illness, frustrations, and so much immeasurable JOY!  We will never have this season again.  The kids will all continue to get older and more self-sufficient.  Times like this are fleeting.  And we know it.  But while we are in the trenches, it is EXHAUSTING!

So, since the last post, we have had QUITE a few event, changes, and exciting things going on.  For Thanksgiving, we had the usual!  Family and friends gather at a local restaurant with a HUGE pot luck meal, and then a fun game of Dirty Santa for those who want to participate.  My husband pointed out this year that the thing he misses the most about this tradition is that there are no left overs!  I hadn't thought about that.  I guess next year we should cook a small turkey for ourselves as well! It's always a good time, and I am glad we have that fun tradition.

Thanksgiving 2013


Emma is between Volleyball seasons, so she is honing her babysitting skills by practicing on her brother for short periods of time.  We are so thankful for her sweet spirit with her brother.  But, she lacks longevity.  He bores her pretty quickly.  LOL  Lara is on cloud nine as she has just found out that one of her dance numbers for the Spring recital is a Lady Gaga song.  She is also a wonderful babysitter for Finn!  She lasts a little longer, and has a great way of engaging him and keeping him busy.  Maybe soon they can start their own babysitting business!

Lara, Emma and boys from our neighborhood in the Cleon Snow!


Jake has just started basketball practice for his season.  This boy LOVES basketball!  He got his uniform at the second practice, and insisted on wearing it to bed...

Jake loves basketball


And then there is Finn.  This boy literally keep us hopping.  He is at the adorable (-ly frustrating) stage where his personality really starts to shine, and his fuse is very short.  I know he gets frustrated because we can't understand him and he has SO MUCH to say!  But, he is just so cute, and fun.  He absolutely LOVES to sing.  And he is an independent player, so it's fun to just observe him from across the room - playing alone and singing.  He loves book, building things with Legos, music, and his Little People.  But, he still suffers with those pesky preemie lungs.  He got RSV.  AGAIN!  UGH!  But, we are so lucky that we caught it early and avoided hospitalization.  He was cleared to go back to school after missing a week today!  I hope seeing his friends and teachers will snap the boredom streak he has been in.  Between him being sick, and the snow storm we had last week, there was a solid 4 days that he didn't leave the house.  He was BORED!  I am happy to say that being in the house all those days really built his vocabulary!  He has gained about 50 more words in the past week.  He lost 2 pounds of weight, though.  Always a give and take with this kid!

Finn with RSV


And during ALL the hustle and bustle, this Momma took a new job.  I know, RIGHT?!?!  And it was totally unexpected.  A friend read the job description, emailed it to me, and encouraged me to apply.  So, on somewhat of a whim, I did.  And I got called for the interview. And then I got offered the job!  WOW!  Not what I thought I would be doing this last 4 weeks!  I had to quit a job I love, work the last 2 weeks there, start a new job that is WAY outside my usual work zone, and juggle all the changes this caused at home as well.  My new position is a 30 hour a week job, and I go in at 7:30 am and get off at 2:00pm.  This changes some of the roles and responsibilities at home.  But it is SO SO SO worth it!  More time with my kids, a challenging job, and a change for the better.  I started last week as the Media Marketing Specialist for University Dining Services at Oklahoma State University.   I am in charge of the website, the social media platforms, the digital menu screens located around the dining facilities, and other special projects.  It is a brand new position, so we are all learning as we go.  I got exactly one day of training last week before the snow storm named Cleon made a mess things.  So, while it has not been a smooth transition, I know I will love this job once I get a little more comfortable with it!

SANTA 2013  Emma, Finn, Jake and Lara


And Christmas is staring us in the face!  We have exactly ONE gift purchased.  It has been a little busy around here.  But, we still have time.  And Santa Britt has a list, and a trip planned.  We WILL have Christmas!  The kids are excited about the season, and we are enjoying the festivities at their schools.  What a magical time of the year.  And this year, I know we will remember this December for a long time to come!  SO many changes - for the better!  Merry Christmas from our family, to yours!

Merry Christmas from the Weaver's 2013





Tuesday, March 5, 2013

One Way (Finn's Way)



Hard to believe it is March 5 – ALREADY!  And Finn is 17 months old.  WHAT?!?  But, February was a blur.  With him being sick, in the hospital, and a short month, it FLEW by.  So, yes, Finn is 17 months old.  He is standing on his own for 20-30 seconds, babbling up a storm, has 10 teeth (2 molars on the bottom!), eats everything he can (but yet we still have to supplement with PediaSure – he just doesn’t GAIN), and weighed in at 19 pounds 7 ounces – fully clothed with shoes (Tiny Toms! So cute!) – at the doctor yesterday.  He is a SUPER FAST crawler, and is in to EVERYTHING!  If you can’t find it, check the drawers and cabinets he has been opening – Nana found a missing toy that way, and I found a missing remote control!  (These items had been missing several WEEKS when they were finally found.)  He is still a complete joy and such a happy baby!  His shirt today says it ALL!    Even if the sheer number of doctor appointments has been a bit overwhelming these past few weeks! 

Finn - 17 months - MY WAY!


Britt and I were going through old pictures and videos on our phones over the weekend, and we watched a few videos from our time in the NICU at Mercy.  It still seems surreal – to both of us – that THAT was our lives for over 3 months, and that the tiny struggling baby in those films is OUR son.  It doesn’t seem real.  Or that it happened to us.  But, it was our Finn!  As strong and crazy as he is now, he started out so tiny and frail.  God’s work blows us away.  To HIM be the Glory!


In the meantime, Finn had his first evaluation with the pediatric pulmonologist (physician who specializes in treating diseases of the lungs) yesterday.  We were recommended to see one after our stay in the hospital, and this Doctor came HIGHLY recommended.  While we didn’t really learn much from the visit yesterday, we are glad we went.  They did a chest X-ray (I think this was probably the 20th one he has had in 17 months), a full exam, and tried to do a sweat test.  This is a test where they stimulate muscles, then collect sweat to evaluate the chemical content in it.  Unfortunately after the (long) procedure, Finn didn’t sweat enough to test anything.  Traditionally, this test is used to check for Cystic Fibrosis, but we know Finn doesn’t have this disease.  So, we assume (no one told us) they do this test routinely just to see what the chemical make-up of the child’s sweat is.  I have another preemie mom friend whose son sees this same physician, and she said they did it with her son as well, and he does not have CF.  So, we were told there is residual evidence of the RSV in his lungs, and to come back in 6 weeks for a follow up and to attempt the sweat test again.  And for Finn to drink LOTS of water before he comes!

(CF sidebar: The girls' father does have CF.  He has a rarer mutation that only slightly effected his lungs, but the end result is what caused us to have to do IVF/ICSI to conceive Emma and Lara.  Before we went ahead with fertility treatments, I was tested to see if I was a carrier since he had the disease, and I am not.  (Both parents have to be carriers in order for the offspring to inherit the disease.)  Each girl has a 25% chance of being a carrier.)

TOMORROW, Finn gets his first HAIRCUT!  I’m sure I will cry.  My last baby’s first haircut.  WOW.  (Emma was over 2 before I cut hers (because she was bald before that), Lara was 11 months,  and Jake was 8 MONTHS at his first haircut!  He had SO MUCH hair!)  I can’t wait to share pictures!

Thursday, February 21, 2013

Snow Day



Since I last wrote, a few things have happened with the Weavers that are worth mentioning.  Today was a snow day – among other things – so I’ve had plenty of quality (tormenting) time with my kids.  And, I was lucky enough to have Nana the Wonder Sitter all day as well.  The pesky snow day was late coming, and plans were already in place when school was called off, so we just moved forward with the original plan.  But more on that later.  First, some updates…

Finn has been home for a week now.  He came home 100% healthy, over the RSV, pneumonia, and whatever else he had, and back to normal.  This was a blessing and a curse.  Dad and I came home 100% exhausted.  It was hard to keep up with him and the Big Dream Weaver kids those first few days!  Last Thursday Finn had a follow up with his pediatrician which went perfectly well, then an appointment with the Ear, Nose and Throat doctor that afternoon.   Our pediatrician is working to schedule us an appointment with a pediatric pulmonologist for follow up, and the ENT scheduled Finn for ear tubes a week later (today).  Never a dull moment with him these days!

Friday was a SUPER EXCITING day!  If you’re a follower of the Six Dream Weavers, you know we have been touting BALTO week at Edmond North High School for several weeks.  Their benefactor this year is the March of Dimes NICU Family Support Specialist program.  Last Friday was the final assembly.  The one where everyone gets all emotional and thanks everyone for everything.  But, the best part?  They calculate and announce the final fundraising number!  Their goal for this year was $225,000.00.  We were pretty sure they would exceed that – this is an AMAZING group of kids – but we didn’t know by how much until the end of the 2 hour assembly.  When they raised the balloons to reveal the final number, the roar of the crowd was deafening, and the tears from the March of Dimes section of the stands were freely flowing.  My Instagram (BestWeave) from the moment:

And the final photo with the amount raised:


We are so excited to see how this money is used in the near future to grow the NICU Family Support Program from just one hospital in Oklahoma (Mercy) to at least one more in OKC and possibly Tulsa as well.  Having one at our hospital made a WORLD of difference in our NICU experience compared to many of our friends who had very different experiences at other hospitals.  THANK YOU, BALTO for choosing babies!

After a busy weekend of running the Bigs to birthday parties, basketball games, dance workshops, and church events, we were glad to get back to a routine on Monday.  Sort of.  The kids had the day out of school for President’s day, so Nana the Wonder Sitter was on quadruple duty while Dad and I went to work.  We really felt like we were starting to get back to normal and back into our routine at that point – even though we were still super tired as parents.  We were blessed by friends and neighbors with food for a few days, which kept us OUT of Wal-Mart for groceries and allowed us time to get the house (laundry, clutter, mail piles) in order without having to worry too much about food.  We are so grateful to have such wonderful people in our lives who love Finn as much as we do!

Of course, as we get back to normal, there is another little obstacle for us to overcome!  Finn was scheduled to have tubes put in his ears at 6:00 this morning.  Which isn’t really that big of a deal.  Except that we were having a thunder sleet storm over night and early this morning.  Ain’t NOBODY got time for that!  It was crazy.  And when we left our house shortly after 5:30 am to go across town to the Surgery Center, the roads were pretty bad – and getting worse!  Of course the process at the surgery center was a bit of a hurry up and wait game.  We were called back right at 6:00, but Finn wasn’t taken back for his procedure until 7:06.  During that time, we were obsessively checking local news channel websites and the Public School website for news of school cancellation.  EVERY town around us was called off; we just knew we would be too.  But, in the meantime, the plan was for Nana to come to our house at 7:00 to get the big kids up and off to the bus stop.  So when the School Board finally announced school closings at 6:50 am, my dad was already driving my mom to the other side of town to my house with chains on his tires to drop her off.  We could have avoided that whole scenario if school had been called off earlier!  The kids would have been fine by themselves until we got home.  *sigh* So, Finn was back in my arms by 7:21.  He did great!  Woke up a bit cranky, but overall did very, very well.  After a really great experience at Stillwater Surgery Center, we got home right at 8:00 am, and Dad went off to work, and I stayed home with the kids – and Nana!  It made for a pretty easy day with the extra help.  We weren’t sure how Finn would react, so it was nice to have extra hands to keep everyone clean, dry, entertained, and happy!  Finn did throw up once about 45 minutes after we got home, but he never ran a fever, had not had any more pain meds, and ate well the rest of the day.  They told us he would nap extra-long, too, but they have not met this child!  He was too worried he might be missing something his siblings were doing to sleep!

We really hope this procedure is a turning point for Finn.  We are looking forward to hearing words and seeing him take his first steps.  He has a hearing test scheduled for next week in Oklahoma City, but we’re thinking the tubes will have done the trick and that the hearing test will come back completely positive!  In the meantime, I hope my big kids get to go to school tomorrow, and I am looking forward to a calm weekend – it’s time to start tagging clothes for the Adorable Affordables sale!

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Sick Baby: Our RSV Adventure



For 10 days now, we have been on an adventure we never dreamed we would be on.  Sounds familiar, huh?  It all started last Thursday when Finn started presenting cold like symptoms.  On Friday, he was super clingy, and definitely on a downward spiral.  Nana the Wonder Sitter greeted me at the back door when I got home from work by saying “It’s going to be a long weekend.  Finn is VERY clingy!” She had no idea how prophetic those words would turn out to be.

First off, a little education.  Babies born as early as Finn are really disadvantaged as far as lung function goes, and it takes a long time for them to get caught up.  The image below shows what baby lungs look like at 8 weeks gestation, 16 weeks gestation, 24 weeks gestation (about where Finn was born) and full term.  Finn was born at 26 weeks, spent 10 weeks on a ventilator (2 weeks on an oscillator), and has chronic lung disease.  This means he is VERY susceptible to upper respiratory infections, pneumonia, and RSV.


And, a little about RSV (via marchofdimes.com)


Respiratory syncytial virus (RSV) commonly causes infection in childhood. RSV is very contagious. Almost all babies get it before the age of 2. Many babies (and most older children) get only a cold from RSV.

Some babies with RSV develop potentially serious lower respiratory infections. Examples are:
  • Bronchiolitis, an infection of the small breathing tubes in the lungs
  • Pneumonia
These infections are especially dangerous in babies who were born prematurely, have lung or heart problems, or have certain other chronic illnesses. Your baby can get RSV at any time of year, but it is most common from October to March.

Symptoms of RSV usually last between 8-15 days. Most babies with RSV do not become seriously ill. But a few become very sick. They may need to be treated in the hospital with oxygen. In some cases, the baby will need bronchodilators (drugs that help open up breathing tubes) and antiviral drugs.
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Now, our time line of how we got to be in the hospital for 5 nights (and counting…)

Thursday,  January 31: Finn starts having cold-like symptoms

Friday, February 1: Nana the Wonder Sitter declares we are in for a long weekend as Finn is not feeling well and is being very clingy

Saturday, February 2: After being up a lot over night with Finn, we decided our baby was sick.  He was laboring to breathe a little bit, and we didn’t want it to get worse or let it go any longer, so we were off to our favorite local urgent care – and our favorite PA was on duty!  RSV, flu and strep swabs all came back negative; after examination it was determined that he had a virus, perhaps an upper respiratory infection (Bronchiolitis?) and to watch for it to get worse.  No meds, no specific follow up required.  He did puke and cause Britt to miss Jake’s basketball game, but we had no idea what we were really up against!

Sunday, February 3:  Another long, tiring, stressful night had passed.  We had been giving breathing treatments at home every 4 hours for a solid day now.   Early in the morning, we decided we needed more treatment.  After having a bad experience at our local ER earlier in the fall with one of the Big Dream Weavers, we chose to head to Oklahoma City for help for our baby.  By 11:00am we were in the Mercy ER – chosen simply because he was born there and they already had records for him.  We spent about 4 hours there with x-rays, tests (flu and RSV again negative), and had 2 breathing treatments , IV fluids, oral steroids and antibiotics.  We were told the diagnosis was dehydration and pneumonia and to follow up with our pediatrician ASAP.  The middle left lung was the worst spot for the infection.  We left there with prescriptions for oral steroids, oral antibiotics, and to continue the breathing treatments every 4 hours, or as often as 2 hours if needed.

Monday, February 4: After a slightly better night, we were on the phone by 8:00 am to schedule an appointment with our pediatrician.  At our 11:15am appointment, she examined him and agreed with the Mercy ER diagnosis.  Told us to use the prescribed meds, keep up the breathing treatments, and to call if it got worse. He wasn’t eating or drinking very well, but he took his meds like a champ!  But, then he puked all over dad again!

Tuesday, February 5: Overnight was one of the worst we have ever experienced since he was tiny and on monitors and oxygen.  By 5:00 am Finn was in distress, and so was dad.  We needed HELP for our baby!  After much debate and discussion, we decided to go to our local ER as our other kids still needed to go to school that day, and we already had a diagnosis just needed more help.  Finn and Britt went on in while I waited for back up for the big kids at the house.  They put Finn on “flow by” (where he doesn’t actually wear the mask, just blows it into his face/nose) oxygen support in the ER as his O2 saturation levels were in the high 70’s.  They also repeated the RSV swab (which had to be done twice since the tech doing it DROPPED the first one!) – Still negative.  A portable chest x-ray was taken as well.  Started an IV with minimal complications, but they were unable to do the required blood draws – from 2 different sites.  So, 2 nurses (one with NO compassion that really ticked Britt off!) and then 3 different lab technicians came in and made their attempts.  I think he ended up with about 8 sticks!  Within 2 hours, they had called our pediatrician and we had been admitted.  We were in our hospital room by 9:30am.

We had seen our pediatrician right before we were moved to our room.  She said they would continue with monitoring and breathing treatments and we settled in for the day.  About 7:30pm, Britt came back to the hospital after going to basketball practice with Jake.  When he arrived, the room was a bit chaotic.  I was holding Finn in the recliner, trying to keep the flow-by oxygen going, because his O2 levels were dipping pretty badly.  They had turned up the flow of the oxygen to about 5 Liters (it had been on 1 or 2 most of the day), but Finn was being very resistant and not interested at all in sitting still.  When Britt got there, the Respiratory Therapist (RT) was in the room with us, and I immediately handed Finn to Britt and asked him to help.  Over the next few minutes, the RT continued to turn the flow of oxygen up - clear up to 15! – And it was blowing in Finn’s face like a blow drier!  He was NOT tolerating it AT ALL!  And we as parents were miserable with the situation.  We asked what else we could do, and the RT suggested nasal cannula.  They had attempted that in the ER, but were unsuccessful – babies don’t like the cannula!  So, after one much harried attempt, the RT threw the cannula on the bed, threw is hands up in frustration, and told my husband “My hands are tied!  There is nothing else I can do!” This did not set well with Britt.  As “politely” as possible Britt told the RT to get out.  We were told they would call our pediatrician, to which we said,”YES! PLEASE!”  She was there within 30 minutes, and after several emotional conversations (Special Thanks to my Sister-in-law for helping me hold it together), by 8:30pm we had made the decision to call for a transfer.  He was not responding as we expected, and we needed more help.

We chose the Children’s Hospital at OU Medical Center because we KNEW they would know how to treat a baby – especially one born at 26 weeks with who had chronic lung disease and probable pneumonia.  It took a couple of hours to get it all arranged and taken care of, but we were in the ambulance by 10:40pm and in our room in Oklahoma City by Midnight.  I rode in the ambulance with Finn while Britt followed in our van.  

Wednesday, February 6- Children’s Hospital.  Upon arrival, they had a nasal cannula on the baby with a flow of 2L oxygen, had run an RSV swab, IV fluids continued, had us settled in to the room, and an orientation to the hospital and the floor within 30 minutes.  AWESOME!  There was nothing else to do immediately since he had antibiotics in Stillwater.  He had breathing treatments every 4 hours, and a chest X-ray the next morning.  When the Doctor came by to examine Finn and fill us in, we were told the RSV test was positive, he has a collapsed spot on his left lung, and he had POSSIBLE pneumonia.  Only “possible” as they couldn’t tell since his lungs are so diseased.  They would continue with oxygen support, breathing treatments, and do a follow up x-ray in 2 days to evaluate the pneumonia.  They also continued with antibiotics in case he did have the pneumonia infection.  By this point Finn was miserably sick – hacking and coughing and constantly struggling to breathe.  We knew we were in for a haul, but we didn’t know how long.  (Side bar story – Britt went back to Stillwater to get clothes and kiss the kids.  When he got tour house, the power was off. Upon further investigations, it was discovered that the City had turn off our power at 2701 by accident – they were supposed to turn it off at 1701!  OOPS!  At least they got it back on quickly!)

Thursday, February 7- Children’s Hospital.  The first of many long days at Finn’s bedside.  The goal for the day was to wean his oxygen support, and to get Finn back to eating and drinking to get off the IV fluids.  The previous overnight was not good AT ALL!  He had a terrible time keeping his O2 Sats up!  His little body was just exhausted.  We had the flow back up to 3L at one point in the small hours of the morning.  We had called on all our prayer warriors and declared that Finn would overcome this obstacle! It worked!  He had a GREAT breakfast, played with his toys, got the flow back down to 1L, and had a great morning nap!  He was also on ½ the amount of IV fluid that we had started out on.  We felt this was GREAT progress, even thought we were back up to 1L flow when he was sleeping.  He drank a while sippy cup of milk and ate his first few bites of food in days!  GREAT progress – and we were told we would be there one, possibly 2 more nights.

Friday, February 8 – Children’s Hospital. Another day of monitoring and pushing Finn to get better.    Overnight was better, but he still struggled from 3am-5am.  We were on .5L when the day started on Friday, and we were completely off the IV fluids.  YAY!  He was still getting breathing treatments as needed, but they were fewer and further between.  They were now doing CPT – where they bang on his chest for several minutes on the front and back with a special instrument.  They do that every 4 hours throughout the day and night.  That afternoon, one of our doctors told us OPTIMISTICALLY we would go home Sunday.  This was a little disappointing, but we want Finn to be FULLY recovered before we take him home. Chest x-ray this morning – the doctor reported that he could not sure out the pneumonia so we would finish out the course of antibiotics.   Friday evening, Britt and I went to the Thunder NBA game with our family while Nana came to hang out with Finn. He was DEFINITELY feeling better today – even if the x-rays and numbers weren’t showing it.  He had turned his crib into a jungle gym and was all over the place!
 
Saturday, February 9 – Children’s Hospital.  Had a GREAT over night!  Britt slept all night, and Finn and I only woke up when nurses or RT came in.  He ripped the cannula off his face this morning, and it took Britt, me and 2 nurses to get it back on – he is feeling MUCH better!  His chest is sounding clearer every time they check, and we were told we might get to try a room air check this afternoon.  His O2 flow hovered between .5 and .25 all day.  Since he is doing better, it was a quiet day with fewer people in and out.  Makes for a LONG day.  I did, however, get to be christened with Finn puke.  And Britt had taken all my laundry home to wash it, so I had no pants to change into.  Thanks to some dear friends for running to Wal-Mart for reinforcements!  YAY for sweat pants!  We were hopeful this would be our last night!

Sunday, February 10 – Children’s Hospital.  EXCELLENT overnight!  Finn slept right through all his overnight assessments and treatments!  We tried a room air test, but his O2 sats dropped quickly, so he failed.  That means we will be here Sunday night as well.  The only remaining goal is to get off the oxygen!   I was pretty disappointed in this news, so I went home to Stillwater to see my momma and to love on my kids.  I needed the break.  Today, Finn’s O2 flow was at .12 most of the day – up to .25 for treatments and one nap.  SO CLOSE!  He is holding on to that oxygen by a skinny little thread!  One more night???

This has become our theme song over the past week.  Take a listen - it has a powerful message!


Stay tuned!  I’m sure you will hear it all over Oklahoma as I scream and shout when they tell me we can go home!!!